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March 9, 2020: Girth vs Length

Hi Jenn,
Quick question. I love milfs and cougars and I feel like I might be too big for girls my age (26). Is that an actual problem?

Average erect penis size is 3-9 inches. So unless you have an erect dick that is a size outlier—bigger than 9 inches, it’s unlikely you’ll have problems. Vaginas change over a woman’s life, and there are a variety of factors that can impact those changes. Age, birth, menstrual cycle, and hormonal levels all play a role, but the most important thing to remember is that those factors vary so individually that it’s impossible to make generalizations about what a woman’s vagina will be like based on age or experience.

Jenn Wodtke

Sex Educator and Writer

With over a decade of study and exploration around sexuality, she’s come to believe that most of us have vast untapped erotic potential. She invites you to join her on a journey to develop, deepen, and expand your erotic life.

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Girth vs Length

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