are you experiencing life altering, soul shaking orgasmic pleasure?
There is a latent, innate, powerful pleasure deep inside you. I’m here to show you how to harness it.
For women: A paradigm shift in pleasure
My own pleasure journey has been a long, windy road. I had the usual crushes in my teenage years, but didn’t take a sexual interest in my own body until my late teens. I didn’t date until my mid-twenties, and my first serious relationship ended in marriage. I rarely orgasmed from partnered sex, but always did alone. That was good enough—I enjoyed sex even if I didn’t come. After a divorce and years of personal growth work, I realized that I’d disassociated from my sexuality, which meant that I’d numbed large parts of myself, my body, and my pleasure.
are you experiencing life altering, soul shaking orgasmic pleasure?
There is a latent, innate, powerful pleasure deep inside you. I’m here to show you how to harness it.
A paradigm shift in pleasure
My own pleasure journey has been a long, windy road. I had the usual crushes in my teenage years, but didn’t take a sexual interest in my own body until my late teens. I didn’t date until my mid-twenties, and my first serious relationship ended in marriage. I rarely orgasmed from partnered sex, but always did alone. That was good enough—I enjoyed sex even if I didn’t come. After a divorce and years of personal growth work, I realized that I’d disassociated from my sexuality, which meant that I’d numbed large parts of myself, my body, and my pleasure.
After my divorce, I began to experiment with my sexuality with complete freedom and abandon. I remembered that I’d had touchless orgasms in my sleep—something my friends found unbelievable—and this led to the pursuit of graduate studies in human sexuality. I was floored that discussion of pleasure was either absent or superficial. I wanted to learn how to re-create my touchless orgasm; I wanted to learn tools and techniques for more pleasure; I wanted spiritual orgasms. I knew there was so much more pleasure for me, but I couldn’t find the education I needed to help me experience that pleasure.
it shocked me how little pleasure was included in my sex education
So, like most of us, in the absence of anyone to guide or teach me about my pleasure, I had to experiment and teach myself: how to have multiple orgasms, squirt, what I needed for a vaginal orgasm, and the importance of relaxing. I also started having spiritual orgasms.
The spiritual orgasms are what blew my world open. Pleasure became empowering. I now had the strength to reconnect with those pieces of myself that I started to disassociate from as a young teenager. Once again I wanted to study sexuality, but with a focus on pleasure, power, and personal growth.
In 2022 I finally found the education I’d spent a decade searching for. In my VITA™ coaching training I was given tools to go inside my body and create new pleasure experiences. Finally, in the jungles of Costa Rica, on my yoga mat surrounded by like-minded women, I had the experience I’d been trying to recreate for decades. Hands still at my sides, I connected with my pleasure, spreading it through my body and being for a blissful, touchless, spiritual, orgasmic experience.
I want you to have full control of your pleasure.
When you can connect with and control your pleasure as you desire, you become infinitely powerful.
After my life altering experiences in Costa Rica, I was excited and nervous to continue my pleasure work. What if I couldn’t do it alone? Being in a room with 80 other women was an energetically powerful experience; would I still be able to access my pleasure without the support of their presence and energy? Nervously, hands at my sides, I began to use everything I learned to build pleasure as I lay on my yoga mat in my living room. I began crying as I realized that yes, I could. Once you unlock your own pleasure, it stays unlocked. Anything becomes possible.
That’s what I want for you. To unlock your pleasure. To deepen your pleasure. Whether you’ve yet to experience orgasm, or you are orgasming consistently, there’s so much more power and pleasure available to you. You can create any pleasure or orgasmic experience you desire: multiple orgasms, orgasm from penetration, your first orgasm, spiritual orgasm, vaginal orgasm…there’s no limit!
What does WORKING with me look like?
From my own experience, I know that learning to connect with and eventually direct your pleasure and its resulting power takes time and commitment. It’s not easy—you need to go deep, look inside yourself and accept everything you find. It’s only when we do that can we begin to create the new beliefs, patterns, and behaviours needed to change our relationship with our pleasure.
Pillar 1: DEEP DIVE INTO YOU. What your pleasure life looks like now, what your beliefs and limitations are, and what pleasure experiences you most desire.
Pillar 2: OUT OF THE HEAD, INTO THE BODY. You can’t intellectualize or think your way out of a sex life that you’ve created with your behaviours, beliefs, patterns, fears, and shames. We’re going to go under the surface and into the muck of who and what you are. You’ll uncover things about yourself you didn’t know. Once the unknown becomes known, we can start to create lasting, powerful change in your pleasure habits and experiences.
Pillar 3: CREATE YOUR NEW REALITY. Once we’re out of the head and into the body, we’ll start creating your new reality for the most pleasurable, powerful, alive, and fully realized you. You’ll receive the pleasure education that you should have received years ago, and will serve you for the rest of your life!
I’m trained in the VITA methodology, which heals and awakens the most intimate parts of ourselves and is based in the latest neuroscience. This means you get not only quick results, but lasting results. Sounding, pleasure, meditation, breathwork, trauma healing, energy work, and movement are some of the holistic tools used in this approach.
How DOES IT ALL WORK?
The coaching container is structured as below. (18 coaching sessions total)
PHASE 1: TRANSFORMATION—3 MONTHS: We meet via Zoom once a week for 12 weeks. Each session is between 60-90 minutes. In this phase we’ll uncover your blocks and beliefs that are in the way of the pleasure you desire. Then, we’ll begin re-writing those blocks and beliefs. You’ll received the tools, techniques, and skills you need to create the pleasure experiences you want. After each session you’ll receive enrichment practises to begin integrating the teachings in the privacy of your own home.
PHASE 2: INTEGRATION—6 MONTHS: In this phase, you have 6 support sessions of 60-90 minutes. Because this work is so rich and deep, I want to fully support you as you begin to integrate your new pleasure abilities into your life. During this integration phase, many things can happen: you feel empowered, you have more questions, you want to go deeper on some teachings. You’ll likely get stuck a few times. These 6 sessions are for you to use in any way you like as you make your transformation second nature.
OTHER SUPPORT TOOLS: access my Slack community; library of audio guides for home practise; invites to group practise; email support
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Only you can decide what your transformation is worth. What stepping into your power is worth to you. Are you ready to live in your full power? Your full pleasure? To finally have the life you truly desire? Let’s chat and see what transformation is possible for you.